Influencing our Children's Self-Esteem (4)

The 4th “A” of self-esteem is Affection. Showing affection can be through the physical expression through a hug or a pat on the back or verbal expressions of caring and affection such as “I love you” (maybe not in front of teenage friends but at some point in the day. I've heard it said that people need physical touching on a daily basis. I subscribe to the 10 hugs a day theory but it doesn't always happen.

Daily interaction with our children showing them affection strengthens their self-esteem. These interactions whether they be through physical activities such as play, outings, conversations, all will assist in demonstrating our love for our children.

So now if we as parents remember to work with these 4 A's, we will have created a nurturing environment that is sure to enhance our children's sense of self.

(To hear more of this discussion tune into Island Parent Radio on Village 900 (AM) or www. village900.com TOMORROW Sunday February 18th at 9 am (PST).)