Two days and counting

Yes, it's two days until Valentine's. To be cynical, it is a manufactured holiday (special day) because we don't get the day off, sort of like Halloween.

But in keeping with the spirit and forgetting the greeting card companies' involvement, it does give time to think about one's relationships. It's the thought that counts here—to remember the special person(s) in one's life and let them know that you love them. Whether it's a poem, a card, a bouquet or a dinner out, it's the remembering that is important. The thoughtfulness of the card or even gift makes the memory.

Speaking of memories, my mom always sent us secret Valentine's. I'm not sure when I figured it out that they were from her (I'm a little slow on the uptake here.) They were silly and sweet and will always remind me that there is unconditional love in this world.

So plan ahead and make the day a little special for your Valentine.