Kids and Sports

On today's radio show Allison and I spoke with Alan Poole about Kids and Sport and how we as parents can support our kids. Alan works with athletes at Camosun College but is also a parent of a 12 year old son and 15 year old daughter both of whom are involved in sports.

It was an interesting discussion that touched upon over-involved parents, communication of coaches and what's in it for the kids.

Some of the points that we emphasized today was that parents have to step back, be interested and supportive but ensure the child/youth is participating because they want to, not because you want them to. Parents need to stay connected with their child athlete but shy away from controlling behaviours. In other words, it is fine to applaud good play but to be yelling instructions or comments from the sidelines at either the players or coaches. Being connected with your child is the important part. The other important aspect to remember it is their sport and team not yours.

With respect to coaches, Alan and I have both experienced that the best coaches are the ones who commun icate well with their teams, individual players and parents. Letting them know why something is happening, being consistent and following through.

Lastly, read your child. If they are enjoying the experience don't get in the way by questioning their playing time or why they are playing a certain position or even on the bench. Let them be part of the team—their team not yours.

(To hear more of this discussion tune into Island Parent Radio on Village 900 (AM) or www. village900.com tonight Tuesday evening at 7 pm (PST) or Sunday March 4th at 9 am (PST).)